Work with the hand you are dealt

A lot of the psychology in self-improvement content centers on focus of control.

You need to focus on what is in your control.

Leave the external factors where they belong: Outside.

Let's rephrase the conversation.

When you are out in the world:

• You act a certain way.
• You walk a certain way.
• You talk a certain way.

People are going to treat you a certain way based on their reception.

You have to live a life that is composed in your frame of self.

Work with the hand you are dealt. You need the courage to be yourself.

There are a lot of copies, drones, approximations, and robots. People are willing to follow a herd as an example.

Lead yourself. Your future self is the example.

When you stand in that frame, the picture is something to behold.